Understanding has its own pace.
It can be nurtured and cultivated,
But it cannot be hurried or forced.
Understanding develops according to its own seasons,
And once it blooms the result is beautiful.
–Christy Heacock (Photo by Jessica Fadel on Unsplash)
Self-Forgiveness Opens the Door to Forgiving Others
Never be defined by your past. It was just a lesson, not a life sentence. ~Tiny Buddha Forgiving is for giving. Self-forgiveness can be a life-changing gift we give ourselves that opens the door to forgiving others. If we haven’t experienced compassion and grace ourselves, how can we share it with others? Forgiving ourselves is…
Is Revenge Addiction a Public Health Crisis?
Last time I went to a movie theater I was appalled and alarmed when preview after preview was filled with anger and violence. So much of our entertainment, as well as our politics, centers around vengeance. I’m a proponent of forgiveness and just mercy as a much wiser way to deal with offensive behavior than…
The Joy of Love Is My Strength
The large, fluffy white dog was so patient, staying close to his elderly friend who walked very slowly with the help of a cane. He was joined by a woman, who also stayed close by his side. The man, whom I’d greeted for many years on my own walks, used to stride unaided at a…
Forgiveness – Bridging Deep Divides
I was a guest, along with Kenneth Cloke, on Humanity Rising’s program exploring the power of forgiveness and civil discourse in bridging deep divides. Below you will find an explanation of our conversation and a link to the program. Blessings, Chris …a profound exploration of Forgiveness in Times of Duress, as Humanity Rising delves into…
Why Boundaries Help Us Forgive
When we fail to set boundaries and hold people accountable, we feel used and mistreated. This is why we sometimes attack who they are, which is far more hurtful than addressing a behavior or a choice.” ~ Brene Brown, The Gift of Imperfection A therapist told a friend of mine that some things are unforgiveable.…
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